Holiday season (and then my birthday) is nearly upon us!

I happen to be blessed with an extremely generous community; however, I myself am gift-averse, and don't want anyone ever feeling obligated to give me a gift.

In fact, I consider no gift to be a very thoughtful gift indeed — considering my perpetual strife against clutter and things — and instead would love to spend time doing mundane (or even interesting) things together.

If you have something specific in mind, though, please consult this flowchart before committing to it!

Is it material? (As opposed to something like an event, experience, lesson, or juicy morsel of info)